The Ugly Side

I seriously have no idea why people are taking others' sexuality so personally and seriously. Your sexuality only defines who you are sexually and emotionally attracted to. people have to be very clear about the difference between sexuality, and sexual behavior, or maybe between gay and sex maniac.  although being gay is harmless, there are some ugly side of being a gay.

The word gay is being tainted by some sex maniacs looking for one night stand, quickie, or 'fun' as they say it. i have seen a lot of phone numbers written on the wall of public restroom, accompanied by some advert statements such as "looking for top/bottom to have fun", "gay bottom here. free of charge". "gay massage" or anything likewise. This disgusts me probably the same way as it disgusts the straight guys.  let me put this clearly. i like guys. but it doesn't mean i should have sex with every guys, or with tonnes of random guys for 'fun'. this gives the idea that gay people are all sex craving creatures who just love having sex because there's no chance for them to get pregnant or whatsoever. i understand that a lot of gays love to do this. i even got some 'sex requests' from a lot of random guys, especially if they have seen the real picture of me. but count me out.

Look, regardless of your sexuality, random sex and having lots of partner can't be good. lets think about it, if a heterosexual girl goes around looking for dicks just for the fun of it, we definitely say she's a whore and whatnot and regarded as a disgrace to the society (basically we are saying it's wrong). well, same applies to the gays as well. it's not ok to do that. but you know, the sad thing is, the gay sex-maniacs are being generalized to the whole gay population. so, basically how the society sees thing now is that if you are gay, then you are 100% categorized as a sex maniac looking for dicks.