On Transgender

It is hard to be gay or lesbian, but it can be harder to be transgender.

The beginning of transgender is the emotional realization of conflict between tangible (body) and intangible ( emotion, soul, mind) of a person. The confusion leads to self hatred. Meaning, inner turmoil is a major part of people who want to be a person of opposite gender.

Transgender is a more taboo issue compared to gay, lesbian and bisexual. The tendency and one's effort of becoming who they think they should be is not well accepted by public. I am surprise to see majority of people in public acted like they care about one's personal life.

In fact, my ex roommate was once a boy, but now he is a woman (women with a penis, because i don't think he had the surgery yet. I know he wanted to, but maybe he's scared). A beautiful woman i might add, but not a complete transgender.. and yeah, He likes boys too although our preferred type of boy are totally different. He likes muscular, manly looking guy, like a gangster, thug or something like that. I like innocent, boyish, cute looking boy with interesting personality. We were roommate when we was in our freshman year. He has tonnes of makeup set, and was actually good at using them- on other people and on himself. He provided makeup service for those who needs his service. I never had any problem with his tendency to try to look like a girl. Not at all. I didn't have a reason to.

Regardless of who you want to be, so be it. Don't let others define what you need to be. You live your own life, not theirs. Your life is yours and no one should take it from you. The bullies will exist anyhow, telling you to kill yourself and so forth. Bullies are feeling insecure themselves, or trying to act religious. No matter how religious they think they are, one thing that i can be sure of is that they are definitely not a good person as they are actually trying to destroy a person's life. Not only a person's life, but a person's soul and self esteem.

I dont have to be transgender to be supportive towards transgender against all kind of hate and discrimination. i am perfectly happy to be a boy, and if i get to choose my gender, i will definitely choose to be a boy.

live with love.